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January 10, 2010

Got Visitation?

     “Visitation” one of the most dreadful words on Howard University’ campus and among many other HBCU’s, for those who may not know “visitation” can also be described as the set of rules for bringing a guest into your dorm. Most students almost feel like they are being punished.
     “Visitation” is frowned upon by most students and is considered unnecessary and old fashion. The word visitation is currently used in jail for inmates who have someone coming to visit. I personally see visitation rules as nonsense but R.A.’s (resident assistants) and elders may look at these rules as “prestigious” (or helpful).

     They believe that there are benefits towards having visitation rules such as more focus, better chances of passing, and a way of motivating us. I completely disagree with this vision being input at Howard University because of the 65% graduation rate. I compare visitation to having a sheltered child whom will most likely show “out” upon being released.
     At Howard there are many students who are doing badly, regardless of the visitation rules. I think visitation helps a lot of people stay sane on campus. Let’s be honest, most college kids are active sexually. Regardless of rules, most college kids feel that they are grown now and have the right to do whatever they want. I will admit that visitation is a distraction but not having it is just as much of a distraction. When we do not have visitation most students on campus are distracted by this one fact.
     I believe that there should be an alternative to visitation rules on HBCU campuses because as we can see these rules aren’t statistically working especially when most people are not graduating from Howard University. HBCU’s should implement a certain standard when it comes to “visitation”. I believe first semester all individuals after being briefed with the rules should have 24-hour visitation with up to 2 guest for up to 3 days at a time. If you are placed on academic probation second semester then I believe that you should have your visitation revoked or be placed on the previous visitation rules. These rules will prevent the distraction, which most college students suffer from.
     Visitations overall affect is more of hindrance than a help. I believe that most people choose to do the opposite of what is told in life. As college students, I believe we deserve freedom and the opportunity to find out who we are by making mistakes. Part of being a grown up is making grown up decisions and visitation rules hinder this. Honestly just, think about it will stopping college students from being sexually active actually improve grades?

2 comments :

  1. Unknown said...

    so true my nigga

  2. Jam said...

    shit for 14,000 a year plus tutition forget residents life we should be running things

    they need to start treating us like adults cause we are paying adult prices to be here
    i understand most of the visitation rules but if they keep us in the kiddy mindset how are we suspose to grow